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July 28, 2008

Name: MSGT Ken Mahoy
Posting date: 7/28/08
Stationed in: Afghanistan
Milblog: Third Time's A Charm

Framed_mahoy_why_1_2 There was nothing I wanted to do more than somehow be involved again in a humanitarian effort here in Afghanistan. I had been involved some with TAO Project and was able to participate in a humanitarian program locally here in Kabul.
And having been part of such programs in past deployments I was excited to get to do it again, if time allowed. Things have been so hectic throughout this deployment that I began to wonder if I was going to miss my opportunity, but finally a few days ago I was able to get approval from my commander to travel with a local group and hand out humanitarian goods to a Koocha Camp on the outskirts of Kabul.

Framed_mahoy_why_2_4 A Koocha Camp is comprised mainly of refugees, or desert nomads, who have migrated to the city to find work and earn a living for their family. The families are former desert dwellers, shepherds, migrants, and a variety of other backgrounds. They usually converge onto a small, unclaimed, and substandard (even by Afghan standards) area to try to make a life for themselves and their families.

The camp we traveled to was no different, and was set upon the side of a steep hill. Everyone was living in ceiling-less mud huts, or bombed out shelters that barely protected them from the harsh elements outside. Many of the walls were constructed of sewn-together burlap sacks to cover the portions  that were lying in rubble on the ground nearby. Raw sewage trickled down in a centrally located stream down a narrow walk-way and eventually ended up on the road down below. It reeked.

As soon as we pulled up, we circled the vehicles as best we could in chuck wagon fashion, allowing a protective cover and a quick exit should things get out of hand. We were here, and the refugee camp was more than ready for us.

Framed_mahoy_why_3_3 As soon as the vehicles stopped, a large crowd gathered around, barely allowing us enough room to squeeze out. Some quickly tried to draw the crowd toward an open area nearby, as our Force Protection team took their positions to set up perimeter security.The logistics of the trip were done. Now we were ready.

The first thing I remember was all the kids running up to each and every one of us, as if taking bets on who had the goods. Was it me? Was it Roger?... Charlie?... Gary?... Charlie and Roger had never had the privilege of helping on a humanitarian mission such as this before, so the initial shock of 20 or so kids hanging off of them with every step was evident on their faces. As for me, I welcomed it and recalled the previous humanitarian missions I’d been on in past deployments. These kids just wanted some attention and whatever we could give them.

Since the humanitarian items were not yet unloaded, I took the crowd of kids I had with me and began to clap hands and play with them. Soon, I began a countdown. "3….2….1….. TAG!" and I would take off running. They quickly understood and soon took chase. They loved it. I would run. They would catch me. Then we‘d count down again.

Framed_mahoy_why_4 Pretty soon, they were picking up on the English-spoken countdown, and they‘d repeat after me, "Tr-r-r-ree… toooo…. Waaan!! TAG!!!" and off I’d go again. It wasn’t long before running with 50 lbs of armor, weapon and gear wore heavily on me in the 90+ degree heat, so I took refuge in the shade of a nearby mud wall and sat down, and began to play another game with them -- thumb wrestling.Framed_mahoy_why_6

The 8-10 year old boys of the tribe loved this game. They’re no different than most boys that age -- very competitive and very impatient. To those inquiring faces who knew no English I explained as best I could, in "motions", how thumb-wrestling was supposed work. I demonstrated to each one "the grasp", then I held each child’s thumb with my other hand to show the 3-2-1 countdown before the wrestling begins.

It was funny to watch this, as some did not understand the alternating thumbs during the 3-2-1 countdown, and immediately wanted to begin wrestling without waiting. Consequently, because of the jump start they got, the kids watching thought the boy or girl had won and they’d all cheer for them. Most times, I let them win anyway. I’d put up a good struggle, grimace and groan, act like I was juuuuuust about to best them, and then with a final grunt, they’d win.Framed_mahoy_why_7

Others in our group were organizing games with the kids. A couple females with our group formed a circle with the kids and played Ring Around The Rosie, London Bridges, and Duck Duck Goose. What a magnificent sight to see those kids twirling around in that big circle; the smiles on their faces, and utter joy when they’d catch the person they were chasing.

Framed_mahoy_why_8_2 I’d be remiss if I didn’t make mention of a small group from New Knoxville, Ohio, who adopted me as their point of contact for sending donations for these kids. They had sent me a few hundred beanie babies, knitted items (from their "Busy Needles" group), and other humanitarian supplies. Most of those items were sorted and packaged into Ziploc bags for distribution to the families on this trip, but I held back a few to hand out personally.

I have to send out a huge thank you to Norma (that's her packing boxes) and her crew from "Operation New Knoxville Cares" for having the faith to trust this tired soldier with their many donations. The tireless effort of the congregation of the First United Church of Christ did not go unappreciated nor was it wasted. To Norma: I am humbled by your enthusiasm and by your faith. You have strengthened my faith that good people do exist in this world, and you have also touched the lives of hundreds of impoverished Afghan children. Bless you.

Framed_mahoy_why_10 At the Koocha Camp, each child was so cute and loving in their own way. Some were quiet and composed, others were boisterous and proud, but every one of them touched my heart in some way. One little girl just loved the camera and kept coming up to me and the guys and motioning with her hands held close to her face the "picture click", so we could take her picture. Lots of preteen boys would stand arm in arm, looking tough, wanting me to take their "tough guy" photo.

Framed_mahoy_why_11_2 Others just seemed to want "me" and whatever I could offer them -- love, attention, fun, stuff. There were so many I wished I could’ve taken home with me and adopted. My heart ached for some of them; a six-year-old girl holding her baby sister in her arms; others with faces weathered beyond their years and chapped lips -- each of whom I’m sure had their own heartbreaking stories to tell. But through all the dirty, malnourished faces, the tattered clothes, and growling stomachs, they were still just kids, and they wanted someone to play with them, like kids do. So I did.

In the end, lives were changed, hearts were touched (theirs and mine), and the world made sense again. After three tours to the Middle East -- being torn away from family, witnessing unspeakable sights, and even becoming jaded occasionally about our presence here -- it is always humbling to be a part of something like this, something bigger than yourself, and get that proverbial slap in the face that says, "Wake up! You are doing some good here!" It’s days like this that remind us why we are here.





Thanks for that inspiring report. I love reading stories like this which help provide a much more well-rounded and positive picture.

thanks sarge,the time i spent with children outside villages in viet nam helped keep me quasi-human.we remember what it was like to be that age and wonder what we'd become,if we grew in similar reminds us that we're here to be a part of life and not just make it through another day.way to go. an old pointman

i dont know, i think we are very far away from our religion. its the reason, what do u think.

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